Friday Fab Four

Friday FabHappy Valentine’s Day Eve! I read this week that Americans will spend $18.9 billion on this holiday…WTH people?  What are we buying?? That is just crazy to me.

Here are four articles I read this week that got my attention, hope you enjoy!

1. How ‘X’ became the Universal Symbol for a Kiss–Amy-Mae Elliot {very cute, xoxo}

2. How One Stupid Tweet Blew up Justine Sacco’s Life–Jon Ronson {great article on social shaming and what not to do on social media}

3. Taking Up (the Right Amount of) Space–Jodi Beznoska {Jodi is a friend…her blog post touched me}

4. The Unofficial Goldman Sachs Guide to Surviving Valentine’s Day–GSE Elevator {pretty funny}

Can You Find Love at Work?

Untitled designIn honor of the Hallmark holiday…let’s talk about love at work.  No, I’m not talking about hooking up with a co-worker! I’m talking about loving your work.

My keychain says “Love What You Do, Do What You Love” simple enough message but not always easy to accomplish. Maybe you don’t love everything about your job, only a few things…that’s ok.  Focus on those things about your job that you do love.

We’ve all been guilty of wasting hours of time griping about those aspects of our job that we absolutely despise.  Bad boss, lazy co-workers, less than stellar work environment, slow internet, inflexible hours, and asinine policies. (I’m sure together we could go on and on with this list.)  It’s not healthy to focus on the negative…even at work.

Take a few minutes and think about what you do love about your job.  Is it rewarding?  Do you have a friend in the office that you look forward to seeing everyday? Do you enjoy creating spreadsheets/reports/widgets/presentations etc?  Is your boss motivating and supportive? Is the office space inspiring and pleasant?  Whatever you love about your job, focus only on those things.  Let the negative thoughts go.

If you cannot find one single thing to love about your job…then it is time to find a new job.  We spend a lot of time at work so it’s very important to find something to love about work.  I know it’s not always easy, I know many people who work in horrific circumstances…but you must either find the silver lining or move on.  Maybe, it’s as simple as moving to a new department at your place of work.  Many times, a change of scenery can help tremendously.

Do you manage people?  Then ask yourself, do your employees love your management style or love the job they are doing?  Maybe as a manager you struggle to find things to love about your job, but you can directly affect whether or not your employees love their job and you.  Managers can be great buffers against negativity and inefficiencies…you just have to be willing to do so.  Here’s a great article on 10 Ways to Show Your Employees You Love Them. 

So when all the flowers, candy and balloons start showing up at the office on Friday…use that as a signal to list the things you love about your current job.  Are the things you love about your job enough to keep you happy and motivated? If the love outweighs the hate then you can probably make the best of the situation.  If not, then while you are in transition to find a new job, focus on those aspects you do love and make sure you take those with you to the next job.

Can’t find one single thing to love at work? Time to start looking for a new job to love.

Friday Fab Four

image001Hello Friday, you are indeed my favorite day of the work week.  Enjoy these four great articles.

1. ‘Lean In’ Isn’t Enough: Women’s Progress in Leadership has Stalled–Aaron Taube (It’s not about fixing women…it’s about fixing the workplace. amen.)

2. Four Day Workweeks, the Trend that will Save Us All–Jacob Shriar (I would love to see this get momentum)

3. 20 Quotes from the Greatest Love Letters of the 20th Century–Brianna Wiest (#15 is my favorite)

4. 16 Things Yankees Fans are Going to Miss About Derek Jeter–Krystie Lee Yandoli (Goodbye Captain)